A godly, single woman’s journey to finding a loving relationship intertwines with the principles of the acronym S-T-E-P. Join this four-day devotional to learn how to find love, joy, purpose, and fulfillment. By embracing these concepts, you will trust in God’s plan and timing as you prepare to attract the love and purpose partner you desire.
Entrusted Women
Day 1
Scriptures: 1 John 4:7-21, Jeremiah 29:13
S = Seek God’s Love
“Watch out for her. She’s just looking for a man!” That’s the reputation I earned before making the Lord the priority in my life. I was so consumed with being in a relationship and getting married that I put my pursuit of a man in the place of my pursuit of God. Only after I got my priorities back into alignment did my love life begin to unfold.
Seeking God’s love is the first step in finding love. It is the foundation of everything! Through scripture, we learn God personifies love. So, if we want to know what love is, we must seek God.
Some may wonder, how do you seek God’s love? Begin by:
- having a personal relationship with him,
- spending time in worship,
- reading and meditating on God’s Word, and
- exercising the disciplines of prayer and fasting.
In a world full of misconceptions about love, it’s crucial to start with the source of love: God. As you embark on this journey of embracing love and purpose in relationships, begin by seeking God’s love.
Action Step: Spend time in prayer and reflection, meditating on God’s unconditional love for you. Open your heart to receive His love, setting the foundation for healthy, meaningful relationships.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank you for your boundless love. Help me open my heart to fully receive your love and let it transform every area of my life. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Day 2
Scriptures: Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, Romans 8:28, Proverbs 3:5-6, Jeremiah 29:11, 2 Timothy 1:9
T = Trust God’s Timing for Love’s Arrival
For the single heart, waiting can be challenging. I know because, as a 49-year-old virgin, I was there. I recall impatiently rushing into a relationship instead of trusting God’s timing, only to discover it wasn’t God’s plan. That decision cost me heartache, time, and money. Later, I met my spouse and realized I should have been patient, as the wait was worth it.
Our job is to hope, trust, and prepare. Sometimes, we delay our promise because we’re not ready to receive it. I know that, in my case, I wasn’t ready to be a wife. For example, I needed to learn to cook a proper meal, not just oatmeal. My finances also needed attention. The last thing I wanted to do was enter my future relationship as a liability. So, I spent my single years becoming debt-free.
Perhaps there are things that God is teaching you in your season of singleness. Seek the Lord and ask him to reveal if there are any areas that you need to enhance. Remember, when we stay ready, we don’t have to get ready.
God sees the desires of your heart, and His plan is far greater than you can imagine. Just as a skilled artist knows when to add the last brushstroke, your love story will unfold in God’s perfect timing. Get ready!
Action Step: Reflect on experiences where you’ve seen God’s perfect timing at work. Write any areas where you need to trust His timing, especially in relationships.
Prayer: Lord, teach me to trust your timing and to rely on your wisdom. Help me remember that your timing is always perfect, and I can rest in your plans. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Day 3
Scriptures: Psalms 139:13-18, Mark 12:28-34, John 13:34-35
E= Embrace and Enrich: Love’s Path
We started this series by emphasizing the importance of loving God. Today, we reinforce the interconnectedness between self-love and loving others.
Dear sister, embrace yourself, for you are a unique creation of God. Accept and learn to see your unchangeable features as God’s mark of ownership. Know that God formed you with intention and care.
Nurture your heart, for a heart well-cared for can overflow with genuine love. By practicing self-care and inviting God’s peace, you prepare yourself to nurture others.
Enrich others with love, drawing from the wellspring of self-acceptance and nurtured compassion. Your acts of kindness, whether small or grand, reflect the love that you’ve embraced. In doing so, you become a magnet of love.
Action Steps:
- Write down three qualities you appreciate about yourself.
- Engage in an activity that brings you joy today.
- Reach out to someone with a gesture of kindness, affirming your commitment to enriching their life.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for creating me fearfully and wonderfully. Help me embrace and nurture myself so I can enrich the lives of those around me with genuine love. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Day 4
Scriptures: Jeremiah 29:11, Proverbs 19:21, Ephesians 2:10
P = Pursue Your Purpose
God wove your purpose into the fabric of your being. It’s the North Star guiding you to a love story that aligns with your deepest values.
Dear sister, as you navigate the journey to love, seek a partner who walks alongside you in pursuit of shared dreams. A love that honors your purpose is a treasure worth waiting for. Embrace the truth that your journey is a tapestry in the hands of the Divine Weaver, leading to a love story that will surpass your wildest dreams.
Pursuing your purpose is an essential part of embracing love. When you’re aligned with God’s plans, you’ll attract people who share your values and goals.
Action Steps:
- Reflect on your passions, talents, and dreams. Write about how you will align your life with God’s purpose. As you embark on the journey to “Pursue Your Purpose,” remember that God has a specific plan for your life.
- Read the verses in today’s devotional to ensure that your pursuit aligns with God’s plan.
Prayer: Lord, guide me along the path of purpose You’ve set for me. Help me make decisions that align with your will and attract relationships that support my journey. In Jesus’ name, amen.